How high are your standards for an actual relationship?

Mar 12, 2026 - 6:45 AM

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  • Of all the women who are compatible for me in terms of attractiveness, temperament, and background i would say i might develop an attraction for about 2% of them.
    Out of those women SOMETHING, usually something they do, will give me a reason not to push for a relationship with around 75% of them.

    Of course factor in circumstances having to be right and they have to be very very special for me to consider them for a relationship.. I've met a LOT of women who could be compatible for me at uni so far, but i'm only attracted to one, ok there's still time for her to do something to put me off, but i have a gut feeling that won't happen with this one.

    what about you guys? how picky are you- i don't mean just for dating, i mean proper girlfriend/boyfriend material.

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  • I tried the https://meetyourstandardstest.com out of curiosity, and it gave me a quick reality check in a way that felt more fun than heavy. It helped me see which preferences really mattered to me and which ones I didn’t care about as much once I saw the numbers. Might be worth a look if you’re sorting out what’s actually non‑negotiable.

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