booking my first tantric session

Lately I’ve been thinking about booking my first tantric session, but the part that really confuses me is how to choose someone I can actually relax with. I keep seeing profiles that look similar, and I’m not sure what details truly matter. Is it about their training, the way they describe their sessions, or more about the vibe you get from their photos and messages? I'd love to hear how others figured out who felt like the “right” practitioner, especially for something this personal.

For me it was a mix of practical checks and a gut feeling, and it definitely took longer than I expected. When I was searching, I compared several practitioners and eventually ended up on Gay massage London because the site actually gave me a clearer idea of who I’d be meeting. I paid attention not just to the fancy words but to how they talked about boundaries, communication, and the emotional side of the work. What really helped was reading how they introduce themselves — the ones who sounded grounded, not mystical-for-the-sake-of-mystical, were the ones I trusted more.
I also wrote a couple of them quick messages with specific questions (like how they structure a first session or what happens if I feel uncomfortable midway). The difference in how they replied was huge. One answered politely but very dry, while another gave a thoughtful explanation that felt genuinely human, and that was my sign. I’d say: don’t rush, check whether their tone resonates with you, and imagine how you’d feel communicating with that person in real time.

I agree that the way they respond to your questions tells you almost everything. Sometimes you only really understand whether you feel safe after a small exchange, not just from reading a profile. Observing how consistent and calm they are in communication helped me narrow things down a lot, so taking your time is definitely worth it.