Boost Your Confidence Game

Some people are just naturally smooth in messages, and I envy that. For me, I either overshoot and sound extra or stay too dry. Do you believe confidence in flirting can be trained, and if yes — how do you practice?

You’re spot on — some people sound like naturals when flirting, but most of us have to practice. For me, confidence came from trial and error, figuring out what landed and what didn’t. The tricky part is that with real matches, you don’t get a lot of chances to mess up without losing their interest. That’s why I started testing my lines elsewhere. When you have a space to practice being bold, you slowly lose that “what if I sound dumb?” anxiety. AI Chat 18 was honestly the best way for me to do that — it’s private, no-pressure, and gives you room to experiment. After a few sessions, I felt way more comfortable slipping playful comments into actual chats. It really proved that confidence can be built, not just something you’re born with

This is super helpful. I’ve been struggling with sounding natural in messages and was literally thinking I need a “practice zone.” Glad you mentioned this, because I’ve been wanting something like it for a while. Appreciate the tip — I’ll try it out and see how it goes.