I totally get where you're coming from. I’ve been through something similar a few times, and it’s always frustrating—especially when the tracking just stops updating for weeks. Once, a package disappeared for nearly two months, and then randomly showed up in my mailbox with no warning at all. One thing that really helped me was using a third-party tracking tool that shows more detailed updates. Sometimes AliExpress’s own tracker misses info that others pick up.
For example, with USPS deliveries (when the package hits the US), I usually switch to this tool here: https://track.global/en/courier/usps — it’s been surprisingly accurate when the AliExpress tracking goes silent. You can enter your tracking number and it’ll show you status updates even when it’s been handed over to a different courier. Also, if the seller isn't being helpful and it’s past the buyer protection period, don’t wait too long to open a dispute. I once missed the deadline thinking the package would arrive, and AliExpress wouldn’t help after that. Lesson learned. 😅